First of all let me tell you that if you continue to confess those words, you will truly never change, since you are already admitting defeat.
Second of all think if you are not using that as an excuse to not take action and change once and for all.
Everyone can change if they propose it, you will not change if you don’t want to, if you continue attending the same places, hanging out with the same people, tolerating your mistakes and making up excuses to be how you are.
Have you thought why it is that others manage to change and you are the only one that doesn’t? It is interesting, why some manage to change and others year after year continue in the same situation?
The answer is simple, the truth is that they don’t want to, they don’t make the effort and don’t take different actions, and they say they want to change but it is only in theory, just words. They don’t deny their flesh, their habits, and their behavior that is why they don’t see any answers, nothing happens.
Friends lets wake up to reality and see things as they are. You will only manage to change things when you propose yourself to it and take action, not when you say you will and promise it, or determining negative things.
I hope you never again speak these words, “I want to change, but I can’t”. Do you agree with me?