When you see that your boyfriend has a girlfriend or an
ex that he admires, a hard battle begins in your head.
Comparisons start
right away and you just don’t accept to be left behind.
If she used to do
his will, I will do more; if she used to have a breathtaking appearance, I also
will; if she had sex with him, I also will, oops.
Then you start
doing things you never imagined, things that you don't even like; but just to
prove to him that you are better than the previous one, you are ready to do anything.
It doesn’t matter how much you will end up suffering so he can understand that
it was worth staying with you.
This path is wrong
and tortuous. If you keep up with this, you will even lose your identity,
your values. For wanting to be better than the ex, you will do things
that displease God; this shows insecurity on your part and low self-esteem.
Instead of you
being in this endless struggle, it would be good for you to start investigating
on how he was in his previous relationship. In fact, if he made his
ex-girlfriend suffer, he will probably do the same to you.
If he ever compared
you to his ex-girlfriend in regards to your appearance or your character
or in something she used to do, he's not worth it. A respectful man would never
do something like that, he doesn't like you and you have to get away from
him before you become a puppet in his hands.
Here come some lies
that women want to believe:
- - He would never
do to me what he did to the other
- - I’m a thousand
times better than the previous one
- - He will be
different with me
- - The attitude he
had with her wasn’t his fault
- - I will make him
change
- - He is a good
person, he only lied because he had no other choice
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