Wednesday, 30 June 2010

Love Deceptions: Hearts Broken


Everything seemed like a fairy tale, he was very handsome, caring, understanding, and everything she had ever dreamed of.
The relationship was so sweet, they wanted to always be together, they would talk several times on the phone, and there was always conversation.
That’s not including the details, he would always shower her with flowers, chocolates, teddy bears, and she fell right at his feet.
But out of nowhere, that guy began to change. His mind always seemed to be distant, he wasn’t as patient as he used to once be, and instead he was rude and impatient.
Now any reason was motive to argue, and that beautiful relationship that once was, began to deteriorate little by little.
She didn’t understand what was happening, but she couldn’t change the situation happening and bring back the man of her dreams.
Until she found out he was being unfaithful to her, and her world came crumbling down, and that was the last straw.
There wasn’t another solution, she couldn’t continue living that way, so disappointed she ended the relationship and she promised herself she would never love a man the same way she had and said: “All men are the same”.
Many women who have gone through love deceptions have closed themselves off to love. Hopeless, they cannot trust anyone and have even become aggressive with men.
The infidelity hasn’t left their minds, and that fills them with rage and resentment and they don’t realize that they are only hurting themselves.
My friends, don’t think this way, amazing men do exist. Just because you had a bad experience doesn’t mean you can’t be happy in your love life. Seek a man of God that will add something to your life, don’t allow yourself to be fooled by appearances, and observe your heart carefully.
Forget your past, if you are a slave to it you will never be able to progress.
Be happy, open your heart, and allow yourself to love again.

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

I can relate to this articles in so many ways i found myself in the same situation with the exception of the infidelity part, throughout this article I keep thinking, that what I felt before, then half way through I was in tears, so unplanned, so unprepared, I saw that although I put an end to my relationship deep down within me I had this same thought…
“...she promised herself she would never love a man the same way she had and said: “All men are the same”

I know I am wrong but until now I did not know that this thought was in bedded in me. What you said is truly like God speaking to me “…amazing men do exist.” “Be happy, open your heart, and allow yourself to love again.”

Its really hard but in moments like this all i can do is put all my trust in God. I know that God will provide.

Asheto said...

It's a sad reality, but many young women go through this; It's always so much easier to lock your heart away,that way you avoid being vulnerable, being hurt, feeling dissapointed....but it doesn't help it; locking your heart completely will only close the doors to potential happiness.

Anonymous said...

When i look in these poster it reminds me of the book 40 secrets about the skunk love, a love that is base on emotion. no so to much but it really explain about it how we need to give value to ourselves

ruth ana london

Chelcia Tavares said...

reading the post i remembered all i went through , i thought love doesn't exist for me, but today i'm happy , i fund love , but i learnt a important lesson that , second love only works when i have a very good relationship with the first love(JESUS) , thank you Mrs. Tania
God bless you

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