Have you
noticed that the world is upside down? Everything that is against the word of
God is encouraged by the world. Values, responsibility, commitment no
longer seem to be appreciated; there's no sin for the world. People can do whatever
they want without any remorse, since each one is his way and free to act as he
wishes; that’s what they think. There’s only one detail, everyone is also
responsible for the consequences of his actions.
In the
past, virginity was more valued both by girls but also by boys. It was even a
requirement to get married for many people. When the girl would lose her
virginity while still single, it was a shame. Today it’s the opposite, those
who are still virgin at 15 are a laughing stock for friends; they are perceived
as old-fashioned and with a grimace. What was an honor once, became a shame
nowadays; everything is upside down.
Be careful
because the guys use the emotional to get the physical and the girls use the
physical to get the emotional, neither is correct.
Usually, when
they are conquering the girl, they send flowers, e-mails, they give gifts, they
open the car’s door, they treat you like a princess; they know that they play
with our emotions like that. All this is welcomed, if it comes without ulterior
motives.
Sometimes, the
girl gets carried away by all these details and she thinks that he is so safe
that they will be no problem if she surrenders to him. After all, he is so
romantic, such a gentleman, he would never do anything to hurt her; this is
going to end up in a marriage, she thinks.
God's plan
is for us to preserve ourselves for the wedding day, for the special person who
will be our husband. How many young girls surrendered to their boyfriends thinking
he was the man of their life and after the courtship did not work out, they
repented bitterly. Furthermore, if you do it before the honeymoon, what beauty
is in the wedding night? If both already surrendered themselves ahead of time,
there is no more magic. The thought that it is necessary to have intercourse
before marriage to see if they get along "well in bed" is something
evil, because those who marry for love and have the presence of God, will
surely be happy in their marriage bed; it can’t be another way. Staying pure is
God's will because the woman has to value herself and not surrender to several
young men until she decides who she is going to marry.
Furthermore,
if you already surrendered to him, why would he want to get married? He already
got what he wanted, there’s no need to formalize the commitment.
The price
of sin is death, spiritual and also physical in some cases; just check out the
number of people infected with AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases,
it’s terrifying.
When you
surrender to your husband and vice versa, you are his alone and he is only
yours, there is no danger and God is pleased in this.
Read 1 Corinthians 6:17-20
Be obedient
to the Word of God, if you please God over your boyfriend, He will honor you;
your boyfriend has no right to stop you from obeying the word of God, he must
respect your faith, if he does not respect you, why stay with someone like
that? Think very carefully before marrying an unbeliever, chances are for you
to be unhappy and to have a life of suffering, see how the problems and discord
have already begun during courtship.
Be smart
and above all things, God fearing! Sex before marriage will not show your
partner the size of your love for him, it won’t get you closer, it's just sex
for him, it won’t secure him.
Remain pure
before God, your boyfriend only goes as far as you allow him to.
The two
must make a vow to God to remain pure until marriage, and a vow cannot be
broken, or will you fail God because of your boyfriend?
I would
like to give you a hint; buy a wedding ring, not only to show that you are in a
relationship, but for something much deeper. Make a prayer and seal this vow of
purity with the wedding ring; whenever you look at it, you will remember the
covenant that you have with God and you will respect that beyond any desire.
If your boyfriend disagrees with all this,
then it's time to make a decision and to get out of this relationship,
otherwise you will fall.
10 comments:
I am ready for this commitment of keeping myself pure for marriage, thank you Mrs Tania.
Very true Mrs Tania, keeping ourselves pure for marraige that will allow God to honor and bless our marraiges. Thank you
Wow
One of my family members took love life in their own hands and have made a mess. The relationship is so messed up that she has to fight her boyfriend boyfriend's all the time. The risk of getting stds and HIV are so high in this relationship.
I love this Mrs Tania!
When I was a child (maybe 9), I vowed with myself that I would not have sex before marriage... I can't remember what made me say this but I have never forgotten this vow!
Before knowing God, it was not easy though, I was curious about what it felt like, especially when friends used to boast about what they done the night before with their boyfriends!
But thank God, I'm now in my 20's and I have kept my vow and my purity!
I think its something beautiful, right?! =D
Powerful
Thank you Mrs Tania for the message it is inspiring.A woman should value herself and give herself to a man to please him . A woman should rather please God over a man , that way God will honor her.
Thank you Mrs Tania, i thank God that i took this decision to remain pure until marriage, and i stick by it.
thank you for the hint as well.
wooo this is powerful. Thank you Mrs Tania
thanks for the message I will keep myself for the marriage no matter how long it will take but I will wait because time and everything belongs to God.
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