Assistants in Focus Series 21 - I like him, but he likes my friend

"I like an assistant, but he likes my friend. He asked her to pray with him, but she refused, I know she did it because of me; because she knows I like him and does not want to hurt me. But I also do not want to impede anyone's blessing, I do not know what to tell my friend, help me. "

A love life is always a sensitive topic, because it involves feelings, but using reason is a good portion of common sense and always essential.
Why stay living of what could be, or nurturing something that will make us suffer? If we were more objective we would suffer less, right?

Well now let's answer the question, in this case your friend has already proven that she is a true friend respecting your feelings for the young man and denying praying with him.
I think that now it's your turn to show your friendship and let them try, because if he does not like you, you cannot force it.

I know it is difficult to make way for her, because it involves your feelings, but it is the best decision, this way you will avoid suffering insisting on a feeling that is not returned.
I know many young ladies act differently, they want to fight to the end, exposing themselves, acting by the strength of their arm, they even act by flesh, but we must always choose what is right, what pleases God.

Maybe your friend is just waiting for a word of encouragement on your part to be able to make a decision to accept him, since she respects you and does not want to hurt you, then be honest with her ​​and let them have the opportunity to get to know each another.
Never forget, God's will always prevails, trust in God your love life; He never forsakes those that are His, never.